I feel that now more than ever, men are longing and internally aching to be heard
despite that we might think it is the women that are in dire need for so ...
actually, men have been so quiet, for so long, and i am not talking about speech, i mean the deep aches and the soft tender heart longings , the tears, the parts that are fragile and beautiful, and most often than not, undeserving, aching to be shared with a world that only wants to hear them do and prove something they may not have fully gathered the heart to know how to hold within themselves first ..
men now more than ever , are asking to be heard, and to be held, and to be hugged until all the tears roll down and soften and soften all that previously needed to hold barriers and defend all that this is not what they truly genuinely are ...
men need the divine feminine to rise, even more than women need the divine feminine to rise
the divine essence of sweetness and unconditional love that is in the divinity of the mother
the wounding and the bottled up grief, is real ...
you think because they are tough and rough and "well preserved" that they aren't holding an immense depth of heart, inside? ... and isn't the disconnection from this depth of heart in itself, what is causing all this ache and terror and horror in the world?
A HUGE wound acting out on us all, existing within us all ...
and if females now, choose to rise from a place of anger and hatred and separation towards duality with her other side, instead of holding, and completing, and rising together holy and whole within ...
that angry rising can create so much disruption, and more pain and more wars and more walls and more disconnection from the heart spirit that feels deeply and wants to love and protect and care for all that is alive and sacred, in us all ... but especially that of the men
we are bothered by the coping mechanisms that men escape to, to feel 'received' ... can you see the gravity of the metaphor that i am talking about here? ((and no i am not giving excuses here))
what i am doing, is holding a bigger capacity for understanding and deepening the call to solve.
we may have closed our capacity to meet them and see them and hold space for them TOO
it is not about polarity in feminine masculine, it is in the wholeness of showing up with balanced polarity within, to hold another, still learning to hold a whole balanced polarity within ...
a different game and a different logic
We love the men, we need the men, we appreciate the men !.... why fight a nature so much inside to have the guts to soften within and say the truth .. we do not "want" to be tough and rough and do it on our own, who started this wave of madness and why are we still propagating it?
Heal the men
Listen to them, and really listen, hear them ...
they may not have the capacity to verbalize what they may not fully understand how to hold yet and you may want to feel 'bitter' that you are not here to mother the men that were not properly mothered...
but it is a reality, the mothers had wounds of their own that they were struggling to navigate; let go, forgive them, we are the new mothers , we are the new communities of the next generation ...
you want the rising of the feminine, let us start rising
and raising with us , our brothers, and our men, and our societies
That being said, the men have so much work to do, TOO
when we do show up, from this space of love and care that i am addressing, how much of it is perceived in the divinity that it deserves? and how much of it is cherished and adored, and how much of it is taken for granted, consumed, and exploited without a flinch ...
Is there gravity for both men and women here to know how to 'hold' somewhere of that divinity.. i feel that the women forgot who they were, and also sold themselves so sweetly ...
And that is still no excuse that men are adopting and agreeing to this logic and checking in with it
the world has gone messed up, and there is work for both sides to bring back the divinity in our lives.
