Mal-Compris

What should one do, to make sure other perceptions can perceive this reality from the outside, the way it is perceived on the inside?  Okay, I understand it’s an impossible task, and I can’t say I want a perception to perceive like a different perception would perceive.. but at least, any perception should be able to comprehend, within its own parameters, all that is still within the limits that the other perception sets as correct to be correctly understood. So that at least there would be a map, or a graph that defines things between two perceptions that don’t naturally comprehend each other without leading communication between them to drastic misunderstandings. So to say, preset, pre-requisite info that shape how two perceptions understand each other…


Of course, this is neither realistic nor practical if we widen the scale, to a global general scale, when the number of perceptions outnumbers our capability to calculate all the possible  maps to all the different perceptions in the world out there.. It would go chaotic… too many variables, too many perceptions for each individual perception to hold.

We’re all the victims of constant misunderstandings from big numbers of perceptions that we can’t correct, like our surrounding environments and societies. We all have to correct people at times of our lives, and we all sometimes fail to correct everyone, and everything that is misunderstood. People’s perceptions can outnumber the true fact, and therefore, can alter the reality, and make it what they perceive it to be, and not what it actually is. And this is the dangerous part… When we understand that we create our own reality and each creates theirs.

Reality is what we all can agree is real. So to say reality is what we all perceive in the same manner.. but perceptions change greatly… Each perception is its own very unique combination of a set of information. Then how can we consider reality as a constant, a common point that joins all these different perceptions together. We think of reality as a factual concept, upon which real and illusion are measured, defining the norm we base on, defining what’s normal and what’s not,  and what standards make the standards what they are.

When a number of perceptions join together in agreement on a common aspect, they create their own norm. And if one different perception were to co-exist with this number, it will automatically be shunned away and labeled abnormal.  But if we were to flip the roles, what’s normal to the spider becomes chaos for the fly.  But we’re all humans here, and we come in different forms and constitutions, we have different perceptions.. all of us.. and yet we still use terms such as reality and normal among-st ourselves. And we drown in misunderstandings…

You create your own reality… it’s true..  and this can go to far lengths …

You can perceive whatever you want to perceive, you can be whatever you want to be. There are no limits, there is no reality… There are only limits according to other perceptions and for other perceptions than your own. So maybe it isn’t important to be perceived correctly by everyone… It’s actually impossible to ever be perceived correctly by everyone.

Those who are prone to misunderstanding your perception, logically, originally have a different perception.. and neither is necessarily correct or incorrect.. and neither is real or illusion.. neither is wrong or right… Everything is possible…

All perceptions are possible perceptions..

We should seriously, quit misunderstanding each other when we notice that we are perceiving things differently than others.. and we should quit judging each other  basing on our perceptions, realities and norms… We should quit judging the fish by its ability to fly and the bird by its ability to swim.

All is fair… All is possible.. All will be balanced in the end; because life is balanced.. It can’t not be.. It won’t ever be imbalanced, or else it wouldn’t be…